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Have Other Said Of You . . .
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T or F
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1. You're a perfectionist!
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T or F
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2. You're a controlling person!
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T or F
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3. You're a highly critical person.
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T or F
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4. No one is ever good enough for you!
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T or F
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5. You hold a grudge a long time.
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T or F
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6. You are stingy with compliments.
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T or F
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7. You're often blaming others.
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T or F
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8. You're impossible to please!
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T or F
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9. You withhold love as a punishment.
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T or F
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10. You can seldom give a compliment without a "but…" following.
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T or F
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11. You are judgmental.
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T or F
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12. You are easily offended.
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T or F
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13. You often contradict others.
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T or F
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14. You frequently complain about what isn't being done.
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T or F
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15. You frequently interrupt and correct others.
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T or F
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16. You parent equals by telling them what they "should, need, and ought" to do.
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T or F
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17. You are mad, upset ,mad or angry much of the time.
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T or F
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18. You react to others not doing what you want them to do by yelling, screaming, swearing, or name calling
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T or F
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19. You make threats of divorce or abandonment.
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T or F
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20. You are rude, insensitive, curt, abrupt, and do not respect the opinions of others.
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T or F
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21. You see yourself as more hard working, or more responsible, or more capable, or more intelligent than others.
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Total "True" Answers: ______
Explanation for number of true answers:
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0 - 3
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Normal, but not necessarily healthy.
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4 - 7
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Critical and hard to live with
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8 - 12
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Highly critical and non-accepting of others
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13 - 16
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Definitely toxic and dangerous to the self-worth of all
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17 - 19
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17-19 I foresee divorce, rebellion, rejection, and conflicted relationships
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20 - 21
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You are best suited for living alone on an island
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